Look, liars always know. You always know when you lie. In more than 50 years of working with organizations, institutions, senior people, businesses, agencies, and the news media through an extraordinarily broad spectrum of problems and serious circumstances, I have yet to meet anyone who accidentally lied. Well, I did meet one person years back. He knowingly enhanced his war record and suffered expulsion when it was revealed. All lies are intentional.
Lies & Liars Are Everywhere
Our culture is full of professional and serial liars. Among the biggest are the entertainment industries, including the news. Anyone who uses stories is lying. All stories are fabrications, often containing elements of truth and, probably, equal elements of fabrication. Always beware of stories that are “balanced.” That means they maybe half truth and half something else. One thing is for sure, even if the story is “balanced,” it’s a whole lie.
- Lying on the face of it: When was the last time – if there ever was a time – when the movie you saw at the theater matched its description in the newspaper and the promotional hype? These are deceptions at best, lies at worst.
- Deception: For that matter, live theater never tells the whole truth about the programs you have paid big bucks to see. They lie even as you sit in your seats waiting for the performance, by omission, commission, negligence, i.e., your program fails to tell you that the “romantic comedy” you’re about to see has three murders, two rapes, a suicide, and an abused, gay child. Theater, movies, and many live events often use one word promotions, “fantastic,” “powerful,” “memorable,” “lovable.” Then when you leave the event, you aren’t handed a survey with an appropriate validation comment, “worthless,” “dull,” “boring,” “misleading,” “unbearable,” “I want a refund.”
- Dishonesty: “Breaking News” is the biggest lie in all communications . . . On CNN the sign never goes off despite the fact that they use the same doctored video footage and repeat stories dozens of times a day, often for weeks. We never know when news clips were produced, originally shown, or how many times the clip has been replayed. This is deceptive and unethical. Now CNN even flashes “Breaking News” signs just before their 10-minute commercials. What are these people thinking? We are hapless victims.
- Fabricating news when there isn’t any: This is extremely obvious when a news organization tosses on a bunch of reporters and paid consultants (everybody’s paid in television) rather than actual news subjects, victims, or individuals directly connected or affected by the story material being discussed. How many experts does it take in a day to repeatedly say, “They are still searching for the black boxes.” “They are still bombing.” The staged expert shows are collections of political losers. The mouthpiece news shows are like watching wrestling . . . a shit show.
- Exaggeration: Tiny, inconsequential news stories are blown out of proportion or attach false urgency to stories that have actually played out and been resolved hours, sometimes days, before.
- Politics: Don’t get me started.
- Fires never go out: The day before the murder of George Floyd, there were some fires in downtown Minneapolis, which were put out almost immediately. But then, when Floyd’s murder occurred, the television news started with the fires from the day before only identified as Minneapolis, Minnesota. It looked as though the Floyd murder was connected somehow to the flames, which had already been put out. Thousands of times after those two events had occurred and were over, whenever the Floyd murder was mentioned, the clip of the city burning was used along with the clip of the Minneapolis police murdering George. I started getting notes from people around the country asking when we’re going to put the fires out and why hasn’t this already been taken care of? This is the lie, especially of CNN, but of all television news. They love fires, and they love to use clips of them because it gets attention. It is a lie. Just a lie pure and simple. This has got to stop or be metered so that we can know the original use and the number of the current use.
These are just samples of well-known lying habits we and our culture tolerate every day.
Liars and fakers always know. When they are caught and confronted, they cry. Yes, people can be naive, simpletons, stupid, or victims . . . But there is something in human nature that sets off the lie alarm or the perpetrator alert. Whether you are 9-years-old or 90-years-old, most of us can spot a lie and a liar, detect a fake and a faker.
An old friend of mine who was in the FBI for a dozen years in New York and the Caribbean. He retired as the head of security for a Fortune 250 company. He used to tell me an FBI truism about criminals; what criminals learn quickly was that it is always better to commit a large crime. The burglars, the bullies, the petty thieves, and pickpockets are crushed by the criminal justice system. Commit an important crime, and you get better treatment, cells, lawyers, press coverage, better meals, and you’re protected from the riffraff.
The same rules apply for celebrity misbehavior, criminal or not, especially the media coverage part. The media loves criminals and important people who do really stupid things, then behave badly.
If you are a colorful criminal, you get special media treatment. If you are a terrorist, you can be canonized and admired by the reporting stirring up the radicalized individuals to act out their fears, angers, and to die gloriously. The victims and survivors get occasional coverage, but the media always returns to the killers, rapists, terrorists, and especially how the terror was carried out. CNN has been broadcasting the world terrorism handbook daily for decades.
The person, organization, business, agency, movement, or foundation with integrity speaks up, stands up, and fesses up immediately. In fact, they seek forgiveness immediately.
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