11 Self-Inflicted Leadership Crisis Response Failure Behaviors (CRFBs)*

The Background

The Background

Early in my crisis response career, I had a revelation that all crises are patterns of human behavior. Furthermore, crisis response patterns themselves are pretty uniform across the board, geography, culture, and organization’s attitude.

In the next few pages, I discuss the problem of self-inflicted leadership and the behaviors that cause crisis response failure behaviors (CRFBs). These are the ingredients of the patterns of mistakes, errors, and intentional misbehaviors at play in crises.

The more senior you are, the more you are going to be skeptical and frustrated. The major takeaway from the hundreds of situations I’ve been through with clients is that these bad behaviors do happen. They are obstructive to response success. All are preventable. But first, we need to recognize the symptoms before we can understand the solutions required.

These leadership problems are explained in very plain straightforward language. I think you will find this approach to be refreshing in the absence of excuse-making, justification, and blame shifting.

Perhaps the most important issue in readiness is preparing management, leaders, and responders. Most critical of all is the emotional readiness to respond. It turns out that leadership emotional readiness is far more important in responding to urgent situations than logistical or tactical readiness.

11 Crisis Response Failure Behaviors (CRFBs)
In the Order They Occur

  1. Surprise
  2. Disbelief
  3. Silence
  4. Stalling
  5. Denial
  6. Victim Confusion
  7. Testosterosis
  8. Arrogance
  9. Search for the guilty
  10. Fear of the media
  11. Whining
  1. Surprise: Stems from the U.S. management culture that stresses the invincibility of managers and leaders. Today’s prevailing attitude is that smart managers are unlikely to suffer a crisis. The unintended consequence of this delusion is that much necessary readiness activity never takes place.

    Lesson 1: The smarter they are, the harder and faster they fall.

  2. Disbelief: Arises immediately in a crisis because of the ingrained belief that, “It must be a mistake. Crisis doesn’t happen here, to me.” So, the word goes forth to demonstrate that, “it’s a crisis” is false. Even if something adverse is clearly occurring, the lies begin. The instruction from management is interpreted to mean: “find out that it’s not a crisis,” plus, “don’t do or say anything until you talk to us.” The response is held up, and the cover-up expands.

    Lesson 2: In crises, badly handled things get worse from the start and stay worse.

  3. Silence: The most toxic strategy possible. Silence makes you look like a perpetrator, sound like a liar, and quickly become untrustable, whether you or someone else is at fault. How can leaders be seen as credible, reasonable, rational, or honorable while avoiding action and whining about the unfairness of it all while real victims are piling up?

    Lesson 3: Silence is quickly toxic to reputation and is the most frequent CEO career-killer.

  4. Stalling: The process of waiting to talk and holding up decision-making until the right information arrives. This step requires enforcing a period of toxic silence on everyone at the top and to various depths of management. Doing nothing, even for what appears to be good reasons, is unexplainable. The clock starts ticking on top management’s departure.

    Lesson 4: Speed of action and decision beats smart every time. When in doubt, do something.

  5. Denial: Refusal to accept the fact that something bad has really happened and that there may be victims or other direct negative effects that require prompt public acknowledgment, disclosure, and response.

    Lesson 5: Denial once underway has a momentum all its own.

  6. Victim Confusion: Begins occurring almost immediately. Senior management introduces minimizing whatever the “non-crisis” impact will be on the organization. That’s when a problem that starts in the field is appropriated into the C-suite. The leadership of an afflicted organization is distracted, even blindsided by the continued attention given to those who are victims: people, animals living systems, sometimes all three.

    Lesson 6: Management confusion, irritation, and humiliation boils, “Hey, we are victims too!”

    Lesson 7: Despite senior executives whining and warning, the visibility and concern will still focus on real victims rather than the organization’s good behavior over the years.

    Lesson 8: When there are victims, most goodwill bank accounts dry up.

    Lesson 9: The creation of victims quickly overwhelms most or all of your prior good deeds.

  7. Testosterosis: Often management’s first public response is to look for ways to hit back, rather than to deal with the problem. Refuse to give in, refuse to respect those who may have a difference of opinion or a legitimate issue. That’s because management’s first crisis response is usually emotional or emotionally driven. Crisis management always puts management in crisis. Testosterosis characterizes this puzzling and confusing first set of outbursts. Management testosterosis, spontaneous hitting back or striking preemptively, is the single most powerful recruiting tool trial lawyers need to secure clients, created freely by those now considered to be the perpetrator of the problem.

    Lesson 10: Like the crisis itself, things are about to get worse because crises always get worse before they get better. All crises ripen badly.

  8. Arrogance: Reluctance to apologize, express concern or empathy, or take appropriate responsibility because, “If we do that, we’ll be liable,” or, “We’ll look like sissies,” or, “We’ll set a precedent,” or, “There will be copycats.” Arrogance is also responsible for lack of readiness, which is an epidemic among arrogant inherently overly-optimistic, overly-confident management and leadership overwhelmed by crisis.

    Lesson 11: Every tick of the clock during this period of silence, confusion, stalling, and testosterosis represents a substantial nick in the organization’s reputation as well as the survivability of top management.

  9. Search for the guilty: Shift blame anywhere you can while digging into the organization, looking for traitors, turncoats, troublemakers, those who push back, and the unconvinceables.

    Lesson 12: The original order is changed to read, “Find out who screwed up.”

  10. Fear of the media: As it becomes more clear that the problem is at least partly real, the media begin asking, “What did you know, and when did you know it,” “What have you done, and when did you do it,” and other humiliating, embarrassing, and damaging questions for which have to be avoided because you have stalled so long.
  11. Whining: Head down, finger in your navel, shuffling around, whining, and complaining about how bad your luck is; about being a victim of the media, zealous do-gooders, wacko-activists, or that people don’t know anything; about how people you don’t respect have power; and, that you “don’t get credit” for whatever good you’ve already contributed.

The Biggest Lesson of All: A Surprise Ending

Leadership emotional readiness is far more important than logistical or tactical readiness.**

* Read the full article here.

**  For more on emotional readiness, read Helio Fred Garcia’s book, The Agony of Decision: Mental Readiness and Leadership in a Crisis © 2027, Logos Institute Best Practice Series, published by Logos Institute for Crisis Management and Executive Leadership.

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One of the more disabling pieces of baggage that many public relations practitioners carry is being known behind their backs as the Chicken Little in their organization. Getting management and managers attention by referring to any hiccup as a crisis.

The truth is managers and leaders are problem resolvers and issue managers. In every organization, there are bushels of these events active at any given time. But crises are very rare.

I define crisis as a show-stopping, people-stopping, product-stopping, reputation-redefining event that creates victims and/or explosive visibility. The most important word being victims. Problems can be serious, problems can be debilitating, and problems can be distracting, but true crises in any environment, even the most challenging ones, are extremely rare and always produce victims. No victims, no crisis.  

My advice learned as one of the most important lessons that came out of 9/11. 9/11 actually changed the crisis management vocabulary and security, police work, and preparation work. The operative word became Readiness. Readiness is a management word. Crisis management is the PR word designed to get management’s attention and probably a budget for doing something. Hence, the reputation for being Chicken Little after, “The sky is falling” fable. (There’s a similar fable in every culture I have worked in.)

Readiness is Strategic Management Concept

If everything is a crisis then there are no crises. Readiness is self-explanatory and starts productive conversations, triggers more strategic questions, as well as, holds management’s attention and accountability.

Yes, it’s hard to avoid using crisis as a management attention-getter. Trust me when I tell you that it is one of the biggest turn-offs in the relationship that communicators and public affairs staff functions in the organization have with their bosses.

How to Approach Your Boss About Readiness
A Story with a Big Lesson

Let me also emphasize a lesson I learned very early in my career. I gave a speech in Florida to about 200 top security officers in major corporations. When I returned to my Minneapolis office there were easily a couple dozen messages which clearly came from attendees at this conference. My first thought was that I had messed up and said something that irritated or agitated people in the audience or the host organization. But among the names were two or three people that I knew, so I called them. And was I ever surprised.

 The first person I called, Bill, the Chief Security and Intelligence Officer of a Fortune 50 company answered his phone, as he always did, and rather sheepishly I said, “I have all these messages, you were at the meeting, what did I say that is causing my phone to ring off the hook.” Bill said, “I don’t know about the others, but I think you have revived my career with a single sentence.”, “What was that sentence?” I sort of begged. He responded by telling me that, “When you have a concept, especially a really good concept that could involve the survival of the institution and its leadership, go and see the boss first before you write anything down and talk it over with him or her.”, “That single sentence explained why I felt I was failing at my career as a crucial advisor to my boss.” “He would say no immediately or would simply forget what we were talking about.”

He continued, “Typically if I’m going to propose an idea or want to suggest something, I developed a short paper on the subject with some facts, data, and perhaps a couple of suggestions about how to start, and a timeline of expected events.” “My intention was to answer all the likely questions on the first pass.”

“I thought I was being a good staff person”, he continued, “but the truth is I can now see that it comes across as though I thought of everything necessary, the boss has little room to think it through on his own besides what bosses do for a living is decide things fast.” “Then you said this well-prepared approach is often viewed as evidence that you don’t trust the boss to successfully carry out your ideas.”

“You reminded all of us that bosses exist to make the crucial decisions. On major issues they like to be in on it from the start, even before that first exploratory memo is in their inbox.” And then you said, “What bosses appreciate are action options rather than “solutions”.” The Three Minute Drill.

Suggesting options for their consideration is a powerful way of demonstrating that you are working for them rather than yourself.”

As it turns out, that is exactly why everyone else called. They were surprised to hear me say, “Learn to avoid staff work that gets too far ahead of the person who runs the business.” This is a common error among most staff functions.

Staff tend to think it’s generally smart to show how ready we are, by proposing complete ideas. We fail for reasons including lack of trust in a senior manager “to get it” and follow through. Staff fear, of course, is that the boss will say no. The goal always is to leave the meeting with the request for some preliminary thoughts on what we discussed as opposed to, “I’ll think about it.” Which means, of course, you will never hear about it again. People who run successful organizations routinely make other important decisions quickly. They have no time to let ideas pile up. Trusted Strategic Manifesto Link.

Readiness is a critical management activity. It is also a highly strategic activity. Two things most of us in staff functions need to be associated with.

Problems happen often in large numbers every day in organizations. But, if it’s people-stopping, product-stopping, show-stopping, reputation-redefining, or circumstance that can create victims and/or explosive visibility, that is worth an executive’s attention. Lucky for most of us they rarely happen, but we’re busy getting ready to manage other problems in the meantime.

You might find it useful to review the Trusted Strategic Advisors Manifesto, part of which talks about the six mistakes trusted advisors need to avoid making. Especially error #5, pushing ideas that the boss will never buy.